The Girlfriend Experience

As I recently wrote on Twitter, the girlfriend experience is about mutual respect. It is when a sex worker treats a client as more than “just a client” and, conversely, a client treats a sex worker as more than “just a sex worker.” Treating each other with dignity and respect creates unforgettable memories for both parties.

To me, everything in life is reciprocal. When people treat others how they would wish to be treated, then there will never be negative energy or disappointment. Positivity coupled with kind-heartedness is always a win/win scenario.

As such, when corresponding with potential clients, my favourite questions from gentlemen are always personality-driven. I love being asked about my interests and future goals; the books that I’m reading; and what I aspire in life.

The questions that I do not favour are with respect to specific services that I offer. Remember: sex workers are a sure thing. I am pretty sure that clients already know what to expect. To me, being asked to provide a menu is an immediate turn-off. It makes me think that the client is more interested in checking off an arbitrary list of services than experiencing a connection with me.

In my opinion, if you want to establish a connection, then it is character-driven as opposed to a list of specific services. Personality and mutual respect are what matter most.

The girlfriend experience is about reciprocal responsibilities: clients should be treated as though they are more than just a transaction and, conversely, sex workers should be treated as though they are more than just a checklist of services.

 

Unrevealing of Mia Evans

 

 

They say you should never judge a person until you’ve walked in their shoes. Despite this, we have a strong tendency to judge everyone from the first time we lay our eyes on them, before we even know who they are and from where they come from.

You probably did the same with me, when you first stumbled upon my site. Now, I decided it’s time to reveal who I am. Here is the real Mia Evans.

I was born in Tampa, FL to an African American/Native American mother and a Jewish/African American father. My Jewish family is very conservative, so I had a strict upbringing. I practice Kabbalah, a form of Judaism.

I have a major in Business and a minor in Marketing, which opened the door for me towards the Corporate America. I was lucky enough to get a job in the mortgage lending industry.

Yet the shy, nerdy girl who came from a strict, religious family and was a virgin until 19 years old had a secret: a fascination for adult entertainment!

My fascination made me leave my corporate job and take up dancing, which suited my outgoing nature. After all, I am a Leo, a leader, the life of the party! In my 20s I modeled for many adult magazines, appearing on the covers and as the centerfold model. My talent agent booked me shows which enabled me to travel across US to Gentlemen clubs as a headliner. During these times I learned that I was attracted by older, wiser men. I enjoy their company and making money out of it came naturally. I also value chivalry, wisdom and intelligence, which arouse me.

Working in adult industry has its own drawbacks, the main one being the danger of alienating your family. Luckily, I was spared from that. My family accepted my job, as well as a couple of my friends. I learned not to care for the rest of them, nor for all the strangers who judge me for who I am and what I do.

Few can adjust to my non-traditional lifestyle, but then, I am Mia! I am not one from the crowds and I’ve never wanted to be. I am who I want to be and I enjoy every moment of it!